On the 21st of August, 2021, I set foot in Los Angeles, a city known for its sunny beaches and the breathtaking Pacific Ocean. Little did I know that this city would not just be a place of residence but a profound teacher that would shape my character and perspective.
Initial Impressions and Lessons
My initial encounters with LA were nothing short of awe-inspiring. The city’s rule of “Mind your own business” and the importance of making colleagues and friends a part of my LA family quickly became apparent. The pulse of this bustling city, coupled with the necessity to keep pace, presented itself as a unique and beautiful challenge.
LA taught me to be flamboyant initially, but gradually it instilled in me the value of humility. People here greeted me with smiles, and no one judged or questioned my actions. The city’s atmosphere was a blend of laugh, frolic, misery, and pain, offering a rich tapestry of experiences.
Rules to Live By
Two fundamental rules guided my journey in LA: “Mind your own business” and “Make your colleagues/friends a part of your LA family.” Following these rules, coupled with financial stability, became the formula for a fulfilling life in this city.
From Stranger to Family
The people you work with in LA become more than just colleagues; they become your family. Moving to a city seven seas away becomes an adventure with a part two of your life, filled with exploration and growth. I roamed this city like a vagabond, absorbing her essence and learning invaluable lessons along the way.
Dreams Unveiled in the City of Dreams
Fast forward almost three years, and I find myself reflecting on a journey that led me to realize dreams I thought were never possible. Working on a film for Amazon Prime, titled “Double Crosses,” exposed me to the intricacies of filmmaking and the collaborative effort required to bring stories to life.
Overcoming Societal Labels
Born in the Indian subcontinent, I faced societal challenges that often sought to dictate my path. LA allowed me the freedom to pursue my passions, leading to unexpected opportunities. Looking back, I acknowledge the resilience that shaped me, making me a more mature and responsible individual.
Beyond Stereotypes: A Cultural Perspective
A cultural shift in LA made me aware of the misconceptions surrounding Indian culture. Contrary to popular belief, Chicken Tikka Masala and Garlic Naan are not our staple foods. We have a rich variety of dishes, and our English accent is not merely imitations for entertainment purposes.
Rebirth Through Entertainment
Beyond the world of films, I have immersed myself in the entertainment industry, adopting a new cultural identity. Acting has allowed me to express, entertain, and connect with audiences on a deeper level. The journey from privilege to a humble existence has taught me the true value of money and people.
Gratitude to the City of Angels
Los Angeles, thank you for being a patient and nurturing teacher. I am eternally grateful for the lessons learnt, the challenges faced, and the growth experienced. As I strive to reciprocate this gratitude, I am committed to contributing to the vibrancy of this city and illuminating the paths for others pursuing their dreams.
Looking Beyond: Lessons Learnt
In conclusion, my journey in LA has taught me to appreciate the bigger picture. Eminem’s words resonate with me: “I’d shoot for the moon but I’m too busy gazin’ at stars, I feel amazing and I’m not.” LA, you’ve shaped me into a person capable of gazing at stars while appreciating the ground beneath my feet.
